How can we motivate ourselves to achieve our personal goals? Understanding what motivates us is a great place to get started.
Most of us would probably like to lose some weight, start eating healthier, exercise more often or get more sleep to lead healthier lifestyles. Others may want to learn a new language or spend less time shopping. But how do we get started?
Why we need to understand Motivation
The theory behind it is as simple as, just do it, avoid junk food, eat brown rice instead of white, run 20 minutes a day and go to sleep an hour earlier instead of playing games on our mobiles at night. But if the answer is so simple, why do we so struggle to achieve our personal goals? Why can’t we just do it, avoid junk food, eat brown rice instead of white, run 20 minutes a day and go to sleep an hour earlier instead of playing games on our mobiles at night? It all boils down to a lack of sufficient self-motivation. Motivation is an internal process where a person develops a strong reason for wanting to accomplish something or acting in a certain way, says Michelle Tan, Psy.D., a Clinical Psychologist at the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH).
What Motivates Us
We are all motivated in different ways and by different things. According to researchers, people are motivated to do something because:
- It is fun
- It is intrinsically rewarding
- They want approval from others
- They want to achieve personal goals or standards
- It fits with their personal beliefs
Self-Motivation: Internal and External Factors
“Based on these, we know that motivation can be drawn internally, setting our minds on our goals or pursuing personal growth, or through external factors,” says Tan.
External factors include social influence, health concerns and incentives provided by employers. Both types of motivation can be helpful in different situations. Looking around us, some people could be more motivated to train 10 hours a day, while others struggle to get out of bed in the morning to pursue their personal goals.
Are some people genetically more motivated? “Although no recent studies have looked at how genetics and motivation are associated, psychologists know that personality traits are influenced by a strong genetic component. A link between genes and motivation level is plausible,” says Tan. “Motivation is not just confined to the inside of an individual but also exists in an interpersonal or environmental context.”
“A teenager might show little response to his mother who nags at him to exercise, but jumps at the suggestion by his girlfriend to join a gym class together, perhaps after she shared about how a fellow male gym user approached her,” says Tan, “The world around us also influences our motivation and desire to change.”
Motivation’s Biochemistry
Another way to understand motivation is to look at it through our biochemistry. Motivation and reward are biologically linked to specific chemicals in the brain. Dopamine is one such neurotransmitter that carries messages to areas of the brain, which then signal the rest of the body to respond.
Using brain mapping, researchers have found high dopamine levels in areas that affect motivation and reward in the brains of “go-getters”. In comparison, laid-back types showed high dopamine levels in a different area of the brain, that impacts emotion and risk perception.
Dopamine can take varying pathways to trigger specific parts of the brain, such as the nucleus accumbens, a hub for decision-making and motivation.
Goal-Setting and Developing a Healthy Lifestyle
“Increased levels of dopamine in the brain triggers feedback for predicting rewards, which encourages a person to act accordingly in pursuing something good or avoiding something bad,” says Tan, “Goal-setting is an important strategy to change our own behaviour. Hence by changing our motivation levels, we can set goals to motivate ourselves.”
These goals should be sufficiently challenging (but not unattainable), and specific. In promoting a diet change, for example, setting a goal of “I will eat less” is not specific and more challenging than committing to “I will limit my food intake at dinner to one plate for the next two weeks.” Having a specific goal will help in making deliberate plans for reaching these goals and help us stay motivated.
How To Be Motivated to Achieve Our Healthy Lifestyle Goals
Most people start out strong and committed to achieving their personal goals. However, many of those resolutions fall by the wayside over time.
“Changing a specific behaviour requires the individual to be intentional about the change he or she is making. Reminding ourselves of the reasons why we got started is one helpful way,” says Tan, “It may also be beneficial to find inspiration from time to time. For example, people who initiated an exercise programme to improve fitness may put up inspirational pictures on their mirror, read interviews of top athletes, or get tips from a fitness trainer to motivate their exercise behaviours.”
Tan notes that while high levels of motivation typically lead to better outcomes, overconfidence is something to be wary of. “Overconfidence leads to setting unrealistic goals, which then drastically lowers motivation when these are not achieved,” she explains.
Motivation and Reward
Understanding motivation is also important for parents or employers. Nagging, shouting, or threatening is not a good way to get someone to do something. A stick might be one way to get people to do things, but most people respond better to carrots.
Try to make things fun and intrinsically rewarding. Most people respond better to activities that are enjoyable or rewarding. However, be cautious when using incentives. Parents often use rewards to target extrinsic motivation, such as token systems, money, or extra time for playing video games. However, Tan says that if this is “offered in a controlling manner, it decreases intrinsic motivation”.
For young people and employees, it is best if motivation can be internalised. If extrinsic motivators are offered in a way that promotes choice or increases the responsibility of decision-making, these external demands can be transformed into personal goals and values.
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